![]() You can also find out about events in your area and attend a "party" or "club" where you can meet other couples as well. I suggest trying a swingers social network like OpenVows, which has real people, like you, and will allow you openly connect with other couples for a minimal fee. I would also stay away from swingers dating sites as they are mostly fake profiles with paid "actors". Not only is it unsafe, but your email inbox will also be full of spam. Sites like Craigslist aren't a good place to meet people. This can make it hard for a new couple to find other people. Most couples, especially at the beginning have fears of being "discovered" by coworkers, family, or friends. Okay, so you have both decided that you feel your relationship is secure enough to try it. What happens if one of you likes it and one doesn't? This is also another cause for problems after the fact. One thing a lot of couples don't talk about beforehand is the future. Try to imagine every possible scenario and be prepared for it. If you are a couple and involving a single female, would you be comfortable with a single male as well? Are you willing to "play" separate from each other? (Also known as full swap). Are you just looking for a new experience together? Are you both okay with the experience? Things like the limits that you are both comfortable with are very important and should be stuck to and respected. Sometimes swinging just happens and you are better off being prepared than trying to talk about it at the spur of the moment. Planning is the key because once it has happened, there is no going back.Ĭouples should express their fears, ideas, thoughts, etc. Feelings, thoughts, and fears must be able to be openly expressed, before and after. ![]() You need to know how to communicate effectively between the both of you. The number one rule for any couple in a swinging relationship is that you MUST, MUST, MUST be able to communicate. Makes ya think, doesn't it? Communication Is Key Now look back at those conservative couples, barely noticing each other's existence. Talk to any swinger couple that has been in the lifestyle for some time, and you will instantly see how happy they are. There are advantages to it, just most conservative, church-going types want you to think it's all bad news. ![]() Swinging can ruin a relationship or help it. Knowing how to deal with these ahead of time can make it a lot easier and possibly be the difference between making or breaking your relationship. It's dealing with the issues that can arise afterward that can get tricky. The reality is that swinging is the easy part. While swinging, otherwise known as "the lifestyle" or wife swapping, has become more socially acceptable these days, a lot of couples (or singles) have yet to try it out, due to fears of jealously, instability, or just plain overwhelmed. Heather Mount from How to Ease Into Swinging A beginner's guide to the world of swinging!
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